As a child time took an eternity. Waiting for the bicycle I dreamed of took many long years. Eventually I was given my aunt’s old one, when I was nine. I was over the moon!
Patience is something I’ve had to learn. When things didn’t go my way, waiting was tedious. It wasn’t until I’d given up waiting, that things started to come to me.
Teaching and as a single mother, again, I decided to take another loan from the bank and build a double garage. This was no ordinary garage. It was the place I planned to retire to, so that I could rent my home out, to bring in a retirement income.
This garage had large windows, as well as a skylight. Bathroom facilities and an old kitchen sink for $10, finished off with a cork floor. In fact, a car never entered it. This haven became my studio. It was far enough from the house to link it with a clear roofed carport to protect my car from the severe Canberra frosts.
Because I was not out seeking a partner he came to me. Sounds so simple, but the adage above, rings true for me.
Waiting Room: ‘Good things come to those who wait.’ Do you agree? How long is it reasonable to wait for something you really want? Ben Huberman
http://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/waiting-room/
Patience is not one of my virtues. This is a great story … a reminder that patience does pay off – and taking control of your own destiny helps too 😉
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i hope it helps you Joanne! 🙂
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It’s the balancing act of waiting patiently and actively making stuff happen. I guess you need both.
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I guess being absorbed in what you are doing and remaining positive, brings about positive outcomes.
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“It wasn’t until I’d given up waiting, that things started to come to me.” That’s my experience, too. This spring, when I gave up waiting to be told what was going to happen with my job, and just did the applications for my pensions, things started to move and work for me. I didn’t change anything. I just acknowledged that a door had closed and went looking for one that was open.
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Wonderful! Yes, sometimes things seem to happen for a reason. I hope you have found the right place where you can write and paint to your heart’s content. 🙂
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The wisest advise that change my life was when someone very special to me told me “Learn to be patient and you will never have to wait” Thanks for the post Barbara! 🙂
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What wise advice! It does make life much more pleasant too. 🙂
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Doesn’t sound to me like the years between were wasted…
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Nothing is wasted, I think problems help one develop into a better person!
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Hey! Who says they were wasted! We needed maturation to appreciate one another to the full! xx<3
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You deserved him, after all those wasted years.
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As they ” Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.” – Enjoyed reading your post!
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Thanks Mihrank, you have been busy reading! ❤
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